My endless sadness

So my mother called me yesterday to tell two things. First, my dad and my brothers girlfriend got in a wreck on his Harley. The bike is totaled but they are fine. Second, my dad is getting married next week. Tears just started rushing down my face. You wonder why? So many reason were running through my head.

1. His wife of twelve years just pasted away six months ago.
2. He has only dated this new lady a few weeks.
   
3. He didn't even bother to call and tell me.
   

I tried to hold my self together over the phone. My mom thought my dad might have called me already. She didn't know it would upset me so much. My dad invited my mother and she thought I might wanna fly down for it. I told her no, I wasn't invited and I wouldn't go even if I were still living down there. My brother is going to be the best man. I am always the last to know what's going on. Even when my stepmom was in the hospital really sick. No one bothered to tell me. I was so pissed. I remember them shrugging it off like it was nothing. "Why didn't you tell me?"

"Oh she's been in there awhile, didn't know you didn't know, but you should come over for dinner tomorrow your dad is coming"

At that time I wasn't really speaking to my dad and didn't wanna see him. I told them NO Im not coming over tomorrow, while they begged me, I told them I was going to see my stepmom. She was a wonderful women. She was always happy to see me. No matter what I had done or been. I balled my eyes out yesterday when I got off the phone.

I understand my dad is lonely but come on she just pasted away six months ago. Isn't it a bit soon to remarry?